Phyllis Varipapa’s story began almost 103 years ago, in October of 1922, though even her birthday carried a bit of mystery and mischief. Her father swore it was the 22nd, her birth certificate claimed the 24th, and her baptismal record the 26th. That meant her loved ones never had just one day to celebrate her, she had three. And perhaps that was fitting for a woman who filled not just one life, but many, with her remarkable presence.
Phyllis’s early childhood was marked by loss, losing her mother at just three years old and being placed in a Catholic boarding school until her father remarried when she was nine. Alongside her sister Juliette, she endured the hardship of a difficult stepmother, but she carried herself with resilience and spirit qualities that would define her across a century of living.
In 1947, Phyllis married the love of her life, Jimmy Varipapa, who had returned home from five years of service in the U.S. Army during World War II, where he bravely fought at Normandy and the Battle of the Bulge. While Jimmy was away at war, Phyllis served with equal devotion at home working as a nurse’s aide in a U.S. military hospital while also serving as private secretary to the president of Richmond Hill Savings Bank in Hempstead. Together, she and Jimmy built a beautiful life, raising five sons, and later celebrating the joys of ten grandchildren and five great-grandchildren.
Faith and family were always at the center of Phyllis’s world. She was active in her church community, gave her time selflessly to senior centers, and nourished others not just with love but with the food she so joyfully prepared. Cooking wasn’t just a chore in the Varipapa household it was an act of devotion, a partnership she and Jimmy cherished, handcrafting raviolis, manicotti, and all manner of Italian dishes that became the heart of family gatherings.
Phyllis’s personality was as unforgettable as her cooking. She was straightforward, unfiltered, and never at a loss for words qualities that made her both respected and deeply loved. Those who knew her best will always remember her honesty, her humor, her warmth, and her readiness to welcome people to her table.
At 103 years old, Phyllis leaves behind a legacy of resilience, love, and stubborn vitality. She adored people, and people adored her right back. She encouraged everyone she met with her favorite reminders: “Keep moving, and health is wealth.”
Her century-long life was not just long in years, but rich in love, sacrifice, endurance, and joy. For her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and all who were lucky enough to know her, Phyllis Varipapa will always remain a light strong, steady, and unforgettable.
Dr Bob, Brain Mechanic 